“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.”




Hakeem Belo-Osagie

Hakeem Belo-Osagie recited these lines from a poem by Robert Frost while addressing a recent conference at the University of Cambridge Judge Business School. Belo-Osagie is regarded as one of Nigeria’s richest businessmen, having made his money in industries such as banking and telecoms. He is currently chairman of mobile network operator Etisalat Nigeria.
Belo-Osagie shared with the audience some of the lessons he has learnt in business.
1. Have a healthy scepticism of data
Belo-Osagie says much of the market data and information about Africa he has come across in his career had been incorrect.
One of his biggest mistakes in business was when he was part of a losing bid for the first mobile network licences in Nigeria. At the time some of the world’s most well-known consultancy firms advised that the Nigerian mobile phone market could not exceed 20m subscribers. Based on this figure, Belo-Osagie’s partners decided not to bid more than US$265m. The winning bids came in at $285m. Today Nigeria has more than 100m mobile phone subscribers, and in hindsight Belo-Osagie says the value of the licence was probably closer to $800m.
He did not make the mistake of relying too much on expert data when he bought United Bank for Africa (UBA) in the late 90s. The Nigerian lender was for sale for $15m. Many advised him that buying the bank was a bad idea, but Belo-Osagie felt it was an undervalued asset and stuck to his guns. He approached a large South African bank to put in $8m for a 51% stake in UBA, but this was deemed too risky an investment. Belo-Osagie however went through with the transaction. A few years later the same South African bank made him an offer that valued UBA at $300m.
“So when I tell you to have a healthy scepticism [or] disrespect for data, I mean what I say.”
2. Don’t exaggerate political risk in Africa
Many foreign investors are scared to invest in Africa due to the perceived political risks. Belo-Osagie says companies however need to look beyond only political risk, and take into account all the other risks that could be a threat to a business.
While there may be greater political risk in some African countries, firms in the west have higher “technological risk” with their business models constantly under threat from new disruptive technologies being introduced by companies like Google.
“The risks that you face in a lot of other countries are far higher than you imagine, and they often, in my view, outweigh the lower political risks that you have in the western world. Therefore, success in Africa needs a correct appreciation of political risk, not exaggerating it [and] not unduly worrying about it.”
3. The right team is essential
Belo-Osagie says winning teams are critical to the success of any business. “Teams are crucial because they combine the differing talents of different individuals, and they make the whole better than the part.”
He notes large companies operating in Africa today typically have a mix of expat and local employees.
In terms of expat workers, Belo-Osagie says those with a need for structure, certainty and clear procedure often don’t do well in Africa. It is therefore important to appoint someone with “a spirit of adventure, a hunger for new things”.
“When the light packs up or the washing machine stops working, he or she doesn’t throw their hands up and head for the airport… That eagerness and desire to experience something new, is more important than functional intelligence.”
When it comes to local staff, there are broadly two kinds of people: the foreign educated MBA with an understanding of “what life could be”, and those who have lived in a country like Nigeria all their lives.
He says a winning team is a combination of those with international experience and streetwise locals who know how to work the system.
4. Relationships need to be nurtured
Weaker institutions and legal systems make personal relationships more important when doing business in emerging markets such as Africa. Belo-Osagie says these relationships need to be nurtured.
“You may not want to go [to] the CEO’s daughter’s naming ceremony. You may not want to go [to] his daughter’s wedding, but I’ll strongly advise you to go, in your own interest. These relationships are fundamental and they do not stop at five o’clock in the afternoon… they go round the clock,” he explains.
5. Be bold despite uncertainty
Drawing from The Fog Of War, a 2003 documentary film on the life of former US Secretary of Defence Robert McNamara, Belo-Osagie compares the uncertainty of business with warfare.
“When you go into war, it is like walking into fog, you cannot see very clearly precisely what there is on the other side. I love that analogy because I think that one of the key factors for success in business is you must have that mental attitude to walk boldly through the fog of uncertainty that is an inevitable part of business,” he says.
“There are some individuals who cannot make a decision until every fact is in, who cannot live with uncertainty. By the time every single fact is in, you are inevitably too late for the opportunity.”
6. Don’t sacrifice your personal life for business success
Belo-Osagie urged the audience not to neglect their personal lives in the pursuit of business success.
“Your relationship with another human being, whether that be a wife or a partner or with your parents or with your family, is very important. I know many businessmen that are on the pages of newspapers and on the front pages of magazines, who return to their lives and their houses, who are deeply unhappy. In your desire to be great successes, I want to urge you not to lose yourself. It is far easier to change a job, to change an industry and to improve a business, than it is to change an unhappy life.”



Whatsapp can be a minefield if you're dating.
Whatsapp can be a minefield if you're dating.
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LONDON — Staring down at my phone's screen, I can feel the panic rising inside of me as my finger hovers over the bright green app. My heart's pounding hard inside my chest, but I can't bring myself to look away.
I tap the screen once, twice, before my face flushes red with anger, jealousy and everything else you feel when you discover you're being cheated on.
How do I know, I hear you ask. WhatsApp told me, and I'm taking its word for it.

 It wasn't the first time I'd checked my lover's WhatsApp 'last seen' timestamp, and it wasn't the last time, either. The feature shows the very last time a person was online on the app, and — when checked early enough — can give you an insight into how late a person stayed up the night before.
I was checking this particular feature on a daily basis in order to gain some kind of insight into his nighttime activities. 
"Last seen today at 03:45," it read.
The night before, he'd last been "seen" at 04:03, and the night before at 02:58. Hmm. He either had a terrible case of insomnia, or something sinister was afoot. And, let's just say he'd never mentioned any trouble sleeping in the past...
I pictured him texting another girl in the middle of the night. I thought about the contents of the messages that had been keeping him awake at night. Was he sexting? Was it a booty call? Or, was he texting on his way home from a midnight liaison? 
How could it be that four digits could mean so much to a relationship? 
This tiny piece of information — a timestamp — had created in me an inner turmoil that was nigh on unbearable. It occurred to me that this could all be a figment of my imagination, but my gut told me something different. How could it be that four digits could mean so much to my happiness? 
This behaviour became an obsession. Something I dreaded seeing, yet masochistically checked as I searched for confirmation of what my instincts were telling me. Each time WhatsApp confirmed my suspicions, I felt ill. This digital window on his nocturnal lifestyle was driving me to distraction, and I couldn't tear myself away.
As it turns out, my suspicions were correct. He had been sleeping with someone else the whole time. From this moment on, I trusted my instincts and WhatsApp's 'last seen' feature completely.
I wasn't the only one paying close attention to this seemingly innocuous feature.  
At the same time, my best friend Ellie was embroiled in a relationship with a guy whose behaviour was arousing her suspicions. She too had been checking his 'last seen' status religiously.
"Seriously. What the hell is he doing on WhatsApp at 03:30 when he didn't reply to my message at midnight?", she would cry.
This one feature was making Ellie question the foundation upon which her relationship was built. And, rightly so, because the following week things came to a staggering halt when she discovered that he was — drumroll — cheating on her.
WhatsApp is getting something of a reputation for itself. According to Gian Ettore Gassani — president of the Italian Association of Matrimonial Lawyers — WhatsApp messages sent by cheating spouses play an integral role in 40% of Italian divorce cases citing adultery. 
Online dating expert Julie Spira, meanwhile, says that the incessant checking of the 'last seen' timestamp should sound alarm bells in your relationship, regardless of what you find.
"If you don’t have trust in your relationship both online and offline, then then it’s not a healthy relationship and you should think about calling it quits instead of staring at his or her 'last seen' timestamp," Spira told Mashable.
Some find the Whatsapp feature useful, others think it's torture.
Some find the Whatsapp feature useful, others think it's torture.
Image: Justin Sullivan/Getty Images
People aren't just using the timestamp to investigate possible cheating, they're also using it to figure out whether their text messages are being deliberately ignored, or if they're being ghosted.
Theatre producer Leo Burtin uses the feature during that excruciating wait for a response to a message.
"I use it to see if there's any possible reason why the person is taking longer to respond or "see" a message. It's a bit sad," Burtin says.
Relationship expert and matchmaker Caroline Brealey thinks that WhatsApp's timestamp is akin to "modern day torture" when it comes to relationships. 
"Now, not only do we know they've got our message but we can also see when they were last seen online, which adds serious salt to the wound when you've been waiting for a reply to a message you carefully crafted 24 hours ago. When were they last online? An hour ago. Ouch," Brealey told Mashable.
But, it's not all bad. Some people find the timestamp incredibly useful.
But it's not all bad. Some people find the timestamp incredibly useful.
California-based environmental analyst Marian Swain has found the timestamp invaluable when trying to track her friends' whereabouts after terror attacks.
"I've used the WhatsApp 'last seen' status to check if friends are OK after dangerous events. I used it for friends in Turkey after the terror attacks there, and friends in Paris after those attacks," Swain told Mashable
"It's a quick way to assuage your fears," Swain continued.
Alice Bardrick, a management consultant from London, says that her mum finds it very useful for checking that her daughter is safe and well without disturbing her at work.
"My mum uses it to check I'm alive. And, if I haven't been online before 10:00 she texts me to check I'm still OK," says Bardrick.
This begs the question: Why are we now measuring people's activities and wellbeing against their 'last seen' statuses, rather than their IRL behaviour? 
One explanation could be that the WhatsApp timestamp can tell us something without having to contact the person in question. It's an unobtrusive way of assuaging your fears without bothering or confronting someone. 
Some people are wising up to the revealing nature of their 'last seen' status and are opting to change their privacy settings to ensure this detail is omitted from their profile. And, while the timestamp can become something of an obsession in a dating context, it can be invaluable to friends and family who are keen to stay abreast of someone's wellbeing. Whether you love it or loathe it, this digital obsession can provide a valuable and accurate insight at a time when you need it the most.
Who could have predicted that four little digits could prove quite so crucial?
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Instagram notifications can add to one's heartbreak during a relationship.
Instagram notifications can add to one's heartbreak during a relationship.
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LONDON — I'm sitting in a packed theatre on the opening night of a sellout production. It's a night I've been looking forward to for months, but right now I'm more interested in my phone.

While everyone around me chatters excitedly before the play starts, I'm silently staring at Instagram, but it's not what you think.
I tap the word "following" at the top of my notifications tab and I'm taken to a page that tells me what my friends have liked. And, more specifically, what my ex-boyfriend has liked. 
My heart's in my mouth as my eyes flit about the screen, trying to take everything in. Just a few words on a screen have confirmed what I've been dreading: that my ex has moved on.
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Seconds later, the curtain rises, the lights dim and the play begins; but my thoughts are elsewhere. 
For the next three and a half hours, I'm oblivious to the scene in front of me. My mind is playing out the story of my ex and his new girlfriend as I blink back tears.
Instagram's notifications section is usually a pretty innocuous feature. When set to "you," it tells you who's liked your photos, who's commented and who's followed you.
If you flip to the "following" tab, you can find out what the people you're following have liked.

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Following


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Most of the time, this feature is pretty uneventful. It will mostly tell you which of your cousins has liked a dozen cat photos, or which of your friends is most obsessed with avocados.
But, this feature that can also offer some revealing insights into what your lover, your ex-lover or your love interest is getting up to.
In the throes of a painful breakup, I decided to check the "following" section of Instagram to see if I could gain any kind of insight into what my ex was getting up to. I — like so many other people during breakups — wanted to know if he was as sad as I was; if he was carrying on regardless; or if he had moved on completely.
I checked periodically at first, and then the urge became greater. I kept seeing the same name appearing over and over next to his. A name I'd never heard him mention before when talking about friends or family.
The more often her name appeared in the "following" section, the more frequent my visits to that feed became.
Instagram notifications can spell disaster when you're going through a distressing breakup.
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Each time I saw her name, the blood would rush to my face, my heart rate would quicken, and a feeling of sickening jealousy came over me. I hated what I saw, but I told myself I needed to see it.
That final visit to the feed as I sat in the crowded theatre told me that my ex had commented on the girl in question's selfie with a kissing emoji. A further few clicks showed me more comments, more likes, and more emoji that had been passed between the two.
Although I believed this information would help me, research suggests that it could have made my breakup worse than it needed to be.
Researchers labelled this type of behaviour “interpersonal electronic surveillance,” a.k.a. social media stalking. 
I had before me what looked like the beginnings of a budding relationship.
In a recent study published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, researchers labelled this type of behaviour “interpersonal electronic surveillance,” a.k.a. social media stalking. Researchers explored the impact of "online surveillance after relationship termination" and found that seeing exes flirting over social media actually makes it harder for people to get over their relationships.
Dating and relationship expert James Preece says that repeatedly checking your Instagram following tab isn't just a breakup thing; people in healthy relationships do it too.
"The problem with this is that it can really feed paranoia. Even if you are in a great relationship, if you like the wrong type of Instagram post then it can raise alarm bells. [Your partner] will wonder what you are up to and what your motivations might be," Preece told Mashable
Preece says that if your partner keeps liking certain people's posts, then you shouldn't be afraid to question their actions. But — he says — there could be a completely innocent explanation behind it.
"If you are experiencing a breakup then it's even harder. You'll watch every single like and get more and more jealous. The best thing to do during a breakup is to take a break from social media," Preece continued. 
Student Kylie Hill from North Carolina thinks that incessant checking of Instagram's "following" notifications can be harmful for relationships, but it also helped her discover a boyfriend's cheating.
"I used to check it all the time just to see what my boyfriend was doing," Hill told Mashable.
"One time I was dating someone and I found out he had another girlfriend just by the pictures the was liking [on Instagram] so I went on the girl's page and saw that they had been dating for a while," Hill continued. 
She's not the only person to have unearthed a partner's secret through this feature.
Ishita Ranjan — a marketing manager from London — found out that her boyfriend was in a relationship with someone else by checking the following tab. 
"It made me feel sick to my stomach."
"He told me he'd been to a wildlife park with a friend. Then I noticed on Instagram's following page that a friend had liked a photo of a girl at the same wildlife park," Ranjan told Mashable.
When Ranjan clicked on her profile, she saw that the two had been to the wildlife park together. It took a further 30 seconds to realise that they were in fact in a relationship.
"It made me feel sick to my stomach," Ranjan continued.
Instagram became Ranjan's source for finding out what her boyfriend wasn't telling her.
"I trusted Instagram more than him," she continued.
Whether you're in the middle of a breakup, or you're worried about what your partner is getting up to, Instagram notifications can offer an insight that might be otherwise unavailable to you.
"I trusted Instagram more than him."
In my experience, the "following" tab made my breakup even more painful than it needed to be, but it also told me what I needed to know: That I too should be moving on. The moment I got confirmation of his moving on, I knew that things between us were 100% over, and I was free to continue with my life.
Nonetheless, it's an experience I don't wish to repeat, and since that breakup I've refrained from looking at that section of the app. Yes, this app could confirm a partner's cheating, but it's important to remember that Instagram 'likes' are often be totally meaningless.
In short, use this feature sparingly: It can be a deal-breaker or a disaster.
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LONDON — I could feel the dread welling inside me as I scrolled through my Facebook feed. I knew I'd see his name; I knew the effect it would have on me, but somehow I couldn't tear myself away.

"Unfollow him," people had said to me at the time of our breakup. "Just delete him — it's kinder on yourself," they said.
But, I wasn't convinced it was kinder.
I knew that if I remained friends with an ex on Facebook, if I kept following him on Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat, I would be facing up to the truth of the situation. I'd see photos of his new girlfriend, which would snap me out of any thoughts of us getting back together. It was tough, but I told myself I needed to see it. I knew that unfriending would only make me wonder if he was thinking about me (he wasn't) or if he wasn't over me (he definitely was).
My reasons for remaining online friends with him weren't because I had any intention of being his friend IRL — far from it. I just knew that if I unfriended and unfollowed, my mind would ponder over the what ifs. The consequences of my mind filling in the blanks were far worse than what was happening in reality — hence why it was better to stay connected. I also didn't want him to have the satisfaction of knowing that he'd affected my life in any way, let alone hurt me. It was better for me to do nothing.
But what worked for me — and ultimately led to me getting over someone — doesn't always work for everyone else. I'm glad I listened to my gut — and not my friends — in this instance.
So, is unfollowing on social media now the default motion post-breakup? Mashable asked people who've recently gone through breakups what they did — and whether it helped them.

Stay connected, you'll regret unfollowing later on

A 27-year-old journalist — who prefers to remain anonymous — is also in favour of staying friends with exes on social media. Her reason for doing so is complicated.
"In the days following a breakup it’s so tempting to cut contact and purge the ex from your life but if you do, you’ll regret it later on," she told Mashable.
"Once you get over the initial hurt there comes a point where I like to check up on the ex to see what he’s doing. This is obviously dangerous if he’s got a new girlfriend and he's splashing the relationship on social media," she says.
In the long-run however, she prefers not to cut ties with exes on social media because she wants the option of being friends with them later on.
"At some point when I’m completely over the break-up I do want to be friends with that person — provided he wasn’t a d*** — and having to re-add them on social media would be so embarrassing," she says.

If you unfollow, you'll wonder more about what they are up to 

Like many of us, digital marketing manager Katrina Drake has experienced both sides of the story.
"Not having them connected to you on social accounts means you wonder more about what they are up to."
Drake remained friends with her ex fiancé on social media; something she found to be really challenging at first. She saw photos of her ex enjoying nights out, photographs of him with other girls, and saw he was commenting on other girls' photos.
After Drake's most recent breakup, she decided to unfollow and unfriend him.
"I simply wanted to cut all ties. It didn't end amicably and I think that is partially why I wanted him out of my life asap and to move on," she told Mashable.

"However, not having them connected to you on social accounts means you wonder more about what they're up to, and you end up upsetting yourself thinking they are out living life — when they may be at home sobbing into their ice cream too," says Drake.

Regardless, Drake believes that cutting ties is the way forward when moving on from a past relationship.

"It's key to getting over somebody, allowing yourself the chance to breathe and ultimately look for somebody new. You simply can't do that whilst still focusing on your past," Drake continued.

It's best to unfollow 

Relationship expert Susan Winter maintains that deleting your ex on Facebook could appear childish, and that it's best to unfollow.
"Un-friending looks childish. You look wounded, and out of control. I'd go for the "softer" option of unfollowing. That choice retains your dignity and eliminates the loop of pain caused by staying connected," Winter told Mashable.
"Reading information about how happy they appear  — and perhaps seeing a new partner on their page — can prompt an emotional outburst."

Spare yourself the stress by unfollowing 

Breakup coach Laura Yates told Mashable that being exposed to what your ex is doing online can cause a lot of unnecessary stress and anxiety.
"I think disappearing from your ex’s life completely — including their digital one — even if this is for a temporary amount of time, is the only way to give you that time and space you need to heal," Yates told Mashable.

While relationship experts seem to be in agreement that cutting cords is the best course of action, the reality among daters isn't always so straight forward.
All breakups are different. Some are acrimonious, painful experiences that warrant severing all ties. Others are mutual decisions that can result in friendship.
In the words of Burt Bacharach, breaking up is so very hard to do. Try to make it easy on yourself.


Brazil football legend Ronaldo da Lima has revealed that he prefers Real Madrid star player Cristiano Ronaldo over Barcelona star player Lionel Messi. Speaking during an interview on Onda Cero's "El Transistor" radio show on Monday, Ronaldo said;
"They are three great players," the 40-year-old said. "I would also include Luis Suarez as he is playing very well. This is the most common question in all interviews -- I don't know if it is just for me, or for everyone, but when we ask this question we forget that they are three great players.

"It is so difficult to choose just one as the best. They are very, very good. At the moment I will choose Cristiano as he is playing for Real Madrid, but we cannot forget how good Messi and Neymar are, and we must respect these players for the entertainment they bring us. I would like to see Coutinho at Real Madrid, the Liverpool player,"
Ronaldo also talked about Luis Figo’s attractive wife Helen Svedin when he recalled how Real Madrid president Florentino Perez tried to curb his partying habits during his days at Real Madrid.
"The president told me to stay at home more often, like Figo, and I told him that if I had a woman like Figo I would stay more at home!


 
A Nigerian man by the name Agbalanze GranDeity, today on his Facebook page shared a recent experience he had with helping some children who go about begging for alms. Agbalanze wrote:
''The little things that can change everything which we mostly overlook. Children needs love more than material things, they need our attention more than our sweets and biscuits...We were on our way going home from an outreach when we met the little Abigail and her brothers (Abigail is that 4yrs little girl you meet every day in front of the Polo park Mall gate begging alms with his brothers) . 
 My beautiful Miracle Nnam called out to her and she rushed to meet us expecting some money to come out, Mimi carried her in her alms and asked her if she would want to go shopping with us inside Shoprite, she smiled and accepted with so much excitement and we all marched into the mall alongside her 2brothers, we started at Pep shop and ended at Shoprite... We played, we giggled, we loved, we shared... The next day we followed them home, connected with their mother (a single mother of 3) and we found out that little smart Abigail and her 12yr old elder brother have never been to school before and they've been enrolled to benefit from our "EXPLORING THE STREET CHAMPS PROJECT" 
People who knew them as beggars were looking at us in dismay inside Shoprite... But I bet they do not know the feelings our little kind gesture brought out of the little impoverished Angels. (One of the shop managers even wanted to walk them out of the mall not knowing they were with us, I shunned him badly though) Ma homie Dyce Eze can like to play with children sha... Uchendu Enemuo ma brother was filled in awe... Lolzzz
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All  Women  want  long, full and thick eyelashes. Even some men are not left behind. Having beautiful eyelashes is important in order to have striking eyes. It is also one of the best ways to enhance beauty and become a lot more attractive but has a regrettably hazard which can destroy the eyes.
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            It has become a compulsory used across the “globe” because every Woman want to look stunning beautiful. In ideal it everything should be nice; clothes and makeup. The same applies to eyelashes and it is commonly used among the celebrities, and what is globally new is “what the celebrities are using, the citizen are ready to make use of the too. Commonly called (vogue).Image result for PICTURES OF LADIES WEARING EYELASHES
            Eyelashes extension have been reported in causing irritation to the conjunctivra (Conjuctivitis) or Cornea (keratitis) The irritation can be caused by direct contact from the lashes themselves of hypersentivity  to the substance used to attach them. Among beauty treatments, eyelashes extensions account for the greatest number of eye Clinic consultations Japan, where they have been widely used. Women must know that eyelashes extensions can cause hair lose resulting in eyelashes so thin that women feel they have no choice but to continue the cycle. Indeed, the college of optometrists in England has warned that “repeatedly use of eyelash extensions can cause traction alopecia, a condition where the hair falls out due to excessive tension place on the hair shaft. As a result, this can damage the hair follicle, which slow down and even cease production of hair.

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            My advice? Stick to mascara and use it safely:

Ø  Wash your hands before apply Mascara

Ø  Replace your Mascara tube every three months

Ø  Don’t borrow lend, or share it.Z

Ø  Never add water to the tube; if your mascara dries out, throw it away.

Ø  Avoid makeup counter application even with a fresh wands.

Ø  If you see any sign of infection or irritation, stop using mascara until it clears

Ladies, mothers, Be-ware of Artificial eyelashes extensions

                                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                   
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Miss Akinboyede Adebola Elizabeth,
A student of Moshood Abiola Polytechnic,
Ogun State,Nigeria,
She has Diploma in Mass Communication,
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Well celebrated actress, Funke Akindele in a recent chat with HipTv expressed her dislike for foreign accents especially for one who wasn’t born in the United Kingdom or America and that Nigerians are too western inclined.

1 The Back Snorer

The Back Snorer

 

#2 The Freefall

The Freefall


You’re definitely social and have an open, welcoming personality if you you sleep on your stomach with hands tucked under your pillow. However, you can also be overly sensitive in some situations.

#3 The Hugger The Hugger

 You’re very trusting if you sleep and hug your pillow. But there are times your a bit TOO open with others. You’re the most reliable and trustworthy to friends.

#4 The Board

The Board
Sleeping like a stiff board means your quiet and reserved. You think highly of yourself, which isn’t bad. Your not afraid to turn it up though!

#5 The Side Log

The Side Log
You’re a calm, laid-back person. Also very trusting of other people…sometimes a little too trusting.

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1 • INTRODUCTION

The Yoruba are one of the largest African ethnic groups south of the Sahara Desert. They are, in fact, not a single group, but rather a collection of diverse people bound together by a common language, history, and culture. Within Nigeria, the Yoruba dominate the western part of the country. Yoruba mythology holds that all Yoruba people descended from a hero called Odua or Oduduwa. Today there are over fifty individuals who claim kingship as descendants of Odua.
During the four centuries of the slave trade, Yoruba territory was known as the Slave Coast. Uncounted numbers of Yoruba were carried to the Americas. Their descendants preserved Yoruba traditions. In several parts of the Caribbean and South America, Yoruba religion has been combined with Christianity. In 1893, the Yoruba kingdoms in Nigeria became part of the Protectorate of Great Britain. Until 1960 Nigeria was a British colony and the Yoruba were British subjects. On October 1, 1960, Nigeria became an independent nation structured as a federation of states.

2 • LOCATION

The Yoruba homeland is located in west Africa. It stretches from a savanna (grassland) region in the north to a region of tropical rain forests in the south. Most Yoruba live in Nigeria. However there are also some scattered groups in Benin and Togo, small countries to the west of Nigeria. The occupations and living conditions of the Yoruba in the north and south differ sharply.
Current census figures are difficult to obtain. The Yoruba population is estimated to be 5.3 million.

3 • LANGUAGE

The Yoruba language belongs to the Congo-Kordofanian language family. Yoruba has many dialects, but its speakers can all understand each other.
Yoruba is a tonal language. The same combination of vowels and consonants has different meanings depending on the pitch of the vowels (whether they are pronounced with a high voice or a low voice). For example, the same word, aro , can mean cymbal, indigo dye, lamentation, and granary, depending on intonation. Pele o is "Hello"; Bawo ni? is "How are you?"; and Dada ni is "Fine, thank you."

4 • FOLKLORE

According to a Yoruba creation myth, the deities (gods) originally lived in the sky with only water below them. Olorun, the Sky God, gave to Orishala, the God of Whiteness, a chain, a bit of earth in a snail shell, and a five-toed chicken. He told Orishala to go down and create the earth. Orishala approached the gate of heaven. He saw some deities having a party and he stopped to greet them. They offered him palm wine and he drank too much and fell asleep. Odua, his younger brother, saw Orishala sleeping. He took the materials and went to the edge of heaven, accompanied by Chameleon. He let down the chain and they climbed down it. Odua threw the piece of earth on the water and placed the five-toed chicken upon it. The chicken began to scratch the earth, spreading it in all directions. After Chameleon had tested the firmness of the earth, Odua stepped down. A sacred grove is there today.

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As many as 20 percent of the Yoruba still practice the traditional religions of their ancestors.
The practice of traditional religion varies from community to community. For example, a deity (god) may be male in one village and female in another. Yoruba traditional religion holds that there is one supreme being and hundreds of orisha, or minor deities. The worshipers of a deity are referred to as his "children."
There are three gods who are available to all. Olorun (Sky God) is the high god, the Creator. One may call on him with prayers or by pouring water on kola nuts on the ground. Eshu (also called Legba by some) is the divine messenger who delivers sacrifices to Olorun after they are placed at his shrine. Everyone prays frequently to this deity. Ifa is the God of Divination, who interprets the wishes of Olorun to mankind. Believers in the Yoruba religion turn to Ifa in times of trouble. Another god, Ogun (god of war, the hunt, and metalworking), is considered one of the most important. In Yoruba courts, people who follow traditional beliefs swear to give truthful testimony by kissing a machete sacred to Ogun.
Shango (also spelled Sango and Sagoe) is the deity that creates thunder. The Yoruba believe that when thunder and lightning strike, Shango has thrown a thunderstone to earth. After a thunderstorm, Yoruba religious leaders search the ground for the thunderstone, which is believed to have special powers. The stones are housed in shrines dedicated to Shango. Shango has four wives, each representing a river in Nigeria.
The Yoruba who practice other religious are divided about evenly between Muslims (followers of Islam) and Christians. Nearly all Yoruba still observe annual festivals and other traditional religious practices.

6 • MAJOR HOLIDAYS

Local festivals are usually dedicated to individual deities. Yoruba may also celebrate the following holidays, depending on whether they are Christians or Muslims: New Year's Day, January; Eid al-Adha (Feast of Sacrifice), June or July; Easter, March or April; Maulid an-Nabi (Muhammad's birthday); Ramadan, followed by a three-day feast; Nigerian Independence Day (October); Eid al-Fitr ; Christmas (December).

7 • RITES OF PASSAGE

A newborn infant is sprinkled with water to make it cry. No word may be spoken until the infant cries. Also, no one younger than the mother should be present at the birth. The infant then is taken to the backyard. The umbilical cord is bound tightly with thread and then cut. The placenta is buried in the backyard. On the placenta burial spot, the child is bathed with a loofah sponge and rubbed with palm oil. The child is held by the feet and given three shakes to make it strong and brave. After a specified number of days, a naming ceremony is held. Relatives attend and bring small amounts of money. Male and female circumcision are usually performed in the first month.
Marriages are arranged. A man must negotiate with the girl's father. If he is approved he must bring the family a payment called a bride wealth, paid in three installments. Wedding ceremonies begin at the bride's house after dark. There is a feast to which the groom contributes yams. The bride then is taken to the groom's house. There she is washed from foot to knee with an herbal mixture meant to bring her many children. For the first eight days after marriage she divides her time between her husband's and in her parents' compounds. On the ninth day she moves to her husband's home.
Burials are performed by the adult men who are not close relatives but belong to the clan of the deceased. The grave is dug in the floor of the room where the deceased lived. After the burial there is a period of feasting. Many of the rituals associated with burial are intended to insure that the deceased will be reborn again.

8 • RELATIONSHIPS

Kinship is the most important relationship for the Yorubas. Best friends are very important as well. A best friend is referred to as "friend not-see-not-sleep." This means that one does not go to sleep without having seen his best friend. When approaching death, a Yoruba shares his last wishes with his best friend.
Also important are clubs that grow out of childhood associations. When a group of young friends starts spending time together, they form a club. They choose a name and invite an older man and woman to serve as advisors. The clubs continue through adulthood. They hold monthly meetings, with the members serving as hosts in turn.

9 • LIVING CONDITIONS

Traditional compounds (which house clans) in Yoruba villages are made up of rectangular courtyards, each with a single entrance. Around each courtyard is an open or a partly enclosed porch. Here the women sit, weave, and cook. Behind this are the rooms of each adult. Today the old compounds are rapidly being replaced by modern bungalows made of cement blocks with corrugated iron roofs. Most Yoruba towns, even small ones, have adequate basic services, including electricity, running water, and paved roads.

10 • FAMILY LIFE

Every Yoruba is born into a clan whose members are descended from a common ancestor. Descent is patrilineal—both sons and daughters are born into the clan of their father. Clan members live in a large residential area called a compound. The males are born, married, and buried in it. Females live in the compound of their birth until they marry. Then they go to live with their husbands. The eldest male, or Bale, is the head of the compound. A husband is responsible for settling quarrels within his own family. However, if he is unsuccessful or if an argument involves members of two different families, it is referred to the Bale.
Within the compound, the immediate family consists of a man, his wives, and their children. The Yoruba practice polygyny (having more than one wife). Each wife and her children are considered a sub-family. They have a separate room within the husband's and they share possessions. Each mother cooks for her own children only. A man is expected to treat each wife equally. However, wives compete to gain additional favors for their own children. The father is strict and distant. Often, he sees little of his children. When they are young, children of co-wives play together. However, as they grow older, they usually grow apart because of quarrels over possessions.

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Western-style dress is worn in urban areas. Traditional clothing is still worn on important occasions and in rural areas. It is very colorful and elaborate. Traditional fabrics were block printed with geometric designs. Women wear a head tie made of a rectangular piece of fabric. They carry babies or young children on their backs by tying another rectangular cloth around their the waists. A third cloth may be worn over the shoulder as a shawl over a loose-fitting, short-sleeved blouse. A larger cloth serves as a wrap-around skirt.

Recipe

Fufu (Pounded Yam)

Ingredients

Choose one of these:
  • 3 or 4 white yams, preferably round and fat
  • 3 or 4 orange yams
  • 1 bunch plaintains
  • 1 bunch green (unripe) bananas

Directions

  1. Peel the vegetable or fruit of choice and cut into chunks or slices. Place the pieces into a pot and cover with water.
  2. Cover the pot and heat until the water boils. Cook until the yams (plaintains or green bananas) can be pierced easily with a fork.
  3. Drain well and place one or two pieces into a large mortar and pestle. Pound the pieces until a mass is formed that pulls away from the sides of the mortar. (This cannot be done with an electric mixer, because the pounded yams will be very stiff.)
Fufu is served with soups and stews at main meals. Diners pinch off a piece of fufu, make an indentation in it, and use it as a spoon to scoop up a mouthful of the main dish.

Chicken and Okra Soup

Ingredients

  • 6 to 10 chicken legs or wings
  • 1 small onion, chopped
  • 18 large okra, chopped
  • 1 teaspoon dry ground red pepper
  • 1½ ounces (40 grams) dry crayfish, ground
  • 2 medium fresh tomatoes
  • 2 teaspoons tomato paste
  • Pinch of salt
  • ½ teaspoon potash

Directions

  1. Place the chicken in a pot with salt and pepper, cover with water and boil until tender. Drain, reserving broth for next step. Remove meat from bones and cut into bite-sized chunks.
  2. Combine okra with reserved broth and remaining ingredients. Boil for 5 minutes. Add chicken and continue to cook for 5 minutes more. Serve with fufu.
Men wear tailored cloth hats, gowns, and trousers. One popular type of gown is shaped like a poncho. It reaches to the fingertips, but is worn folded back on the shoulders. Trousers are usually very loose and baggy. All the cloth for traditional clothing is hand woven. Often it is elaborately embroidered.

12 • FOOD Image result for PICTURES RELATED TO YORUBAS FOOD

The Yoruba diet consists of starchy tubers, grains, and plantains. These are supplemented by vegetable oils, wild and cultivated fruits and vegetables, meat, and fish. The daily family diet relies on cassava, taro, maize, beans, and plantains. One of the most popular foods is fufu (or foo-foo ), similar to a dumpling, but made of cassava (white yams). Rice and yams are eaten on special occasions.
The recipes are very popular and are usually served together.

13 • EDUCATION

Since attaining independence (1960), Nigeria has set a high priority on education. Universal primary education has become the norm in southern Nigeria, where the Yoruba live. Secondary school (high school) education also became common. The first university in Nigeria was located in a Yoruba city. Originally called University College, it is now known as the University of Ibadan. The majority of students at Ibadan are Yoruba.

14 • CULTURAL HERITAGE

The Yoruba oral tradition includes praise poems, tongue twisters, hundreds of prose narratives and riddles, and thousands of proverbs.
Yoruba music includes songs of ridicule and praise, as well as lullabies, religious songs, war songs, and work songs. These usually follow a "call and response" pattern between a leader and chorus. Rhythm is provided by drums, iron gongs, cymbals, rattles, and hand clapping. Other instruments include long brass trumpets, ivory trumpets, whistles, stringed instruments, and metallophones. Perhaps the most interesting musical instrument is the "talking drum." The "talking drum" features an hourglass shape with laces that can be squeezed to tighten the goatskin head, altering the drum's pitch.

15 • EMPLOYMENT

About 75 percent of the Yoruba men are farmers, producing food crops for their domestic needs. Farming is considered men's work. Clearing or hoeing fields is done only by men. Wives help their husbands plant yams and harvest corn, beans, and cotton. They also help at the market, selling farm produce. Some Yoruba have large cocoa farms worked by hired labor.
The Yoruba enjoy trading. Huge markets with over a thousand sellers are common. Trade in foodstuffs and cloth is confined to women. Meat selling and produce buying are the province of men.
The new, educated generation is moving away from farming, and its members are looking for white-collar jobs.

16 • SPORTS

Although there are few organized sports, Yoruba (like other Nigerians) in some areas participate in wrestling and soccer.

17 • RECREATION

Traditional entertainment includes rituals, dancing, and music making. Modern forms of entertainment include watching television and going to movies and discos. Most households own televisions sets. The more religious households prohibit family members, especially women, from going to see films. Among urban teenagers, American youth culture is popular. Most young people listen to rap and rock music from the U.S. Ayo, a board game, is popular among people of all ages. It is a mancala game—a type of game popular in west Africa, that is played on a board with two rows of indentations or wells that are filled with small seeds or stones.

18 • CRAFTS AND HOBBIES

Crafts include weaving, embroidering, pottery making, woodcarving, leather and bead working, and metalworking.
Both men and women weave, using different types of looms. Cloth is woven from wild silk and from locally grown cotton.
Men also do embroidery, particularly on men's gowns and caps, and work as tailors and dressmakers. Floor mats and mat storage bags are also made by men.
Women are the potters. In addition to palm oil lamps, they make over twenty kinds of pots and dishes for cooking, eating, and carrying and storing liquids.
Woodcarvers, all of whom are men, carve masks and figurines as well as mortars, pestles, and bowls. Some Yoruba woodcarvers also work in bone, ivory, and stone. Blacksmiths work both in iron and brass to create both useful and decorative objects.

19 • SOCIAL PROBLEMS

There are vast differences in wealth among Yoruba of different social classes. Many urban occupations do not provide adequate wages to support a family.
Nigeria's human rights record is poor. A Yoruba, Olisa Agbakobe, led a group of lawyers that founded the human rights group, the Civil Liberties Organization (CLO).
The crime rate in Nigeria is high, particularly in Lagos, Ibadan, Abeokuta, and other urban areas. More than half the offenses are property crimes. Drug-related crime is a major problem. Young people are using both marijuana and cocaine in increasing numbers.